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why do we call this love?
Monday, November 23, 2015, 8:46 AM
When we first fall for someone, it ignites that special and indescribable feeling. Butterflies in your tummy, numb cheeks from all the smiling and your heart.. it feels like it is fluttering out of your chest.Based on that feeling itself, we say it is "love", because what other feeling best describes it none other than the word "love?" Because love is a strong.. deep and powerful word, whereas "like" although an innocent, positive single word, but it sounds dull, insincere and too mild to express. It can't be used to compare that feeling we feel that much about. Sometimes i feel that love is a word used too much and much too soon. Perhaps it will only be known as love until that feeling starts to dissipate. if it doesn't, it is really, truly, definitely what we really think it is. Perhaps this is why people are afraid... It is painful to wait... wait to see if that feeling dissipates to truly know... to be able to determine if that is truly love. everyone wishes that they have somebody that gives them the assurance, the confirmation. To tell you that.. the feeling will stay for the longest time ever and not someone that tells you that you've to wait because of the uncertainty about their feeling, about you as their life long partner and perhaps it wasn't the right time yet. Now tell me, when is the right time? The right time should be at the point of time whereby you let your feelings be known and not after you've receive their heart.. you start to waver. No that shouldn't be it. Because if that was it, perhaps it could just be all the superficial reasons we can think about. waiting is like throwing time into the bin of no return. How can we use time to determine what we feel at the very beginning, what happens to the reason why did it even happen at the first place? it is worse for the uncertain person than the person with uncertainty. let's be done waiting... because if now is not the right time,, then when is? signing off, germainecys |
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