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GermaineCYS, '94

"If you get tired, learn to rest not quit."

isit true what's lost cannot be found?
Friday, October 9, 2015, 9:22 AM
The future is bleak

its normal that a relationship passes its best phase after a certain time; that's when we start to see things changing. It's normal, we all understand that..but when we start to feel the difference, we start to worry and feel odd. That's why we seek assurance from our partners. A simple sentence in an exchange for their peace of mind, a sense of security. Why not right? even if what you say may weigh too much, don't you think it's better than to leave the other party with uncertainty. Isn't that what love is about? Wanting to see them happy, isn't it a bliss to be able to do something like that? to set a smile on someone's face, simple things like that is fulfilling, even in our daily lives. We feel good when we make someone happy, don't we?

maybe things may not work out in the end. why not make the best out of it?
shouldn't it be an enjoyable process to try out a relationship that may turn out to be something really really special. Why are we always blinded by all the obstacles we are struggling with and at the end we tend to overlook on the true meaning of being and staying in love with someone.

It seems like the whole world is the other person; with no trace of myself

In a race we choose to participate in, we can run and run, get really tired and out of breath. then we thought to ourselves that if we were to give up and rest, it'll definitely feel better then struggling to run. However, we made a choice to join this race and therefore no matter how hard it is, we should at least finish this. we may or may not win the race, but most importantly we tried. 
The wrong decision will bring up many thoughts, don't give yourself a chance to blame yourself someday thinking of all the what ifs or if only and that is gonna be much more painful. At least if we persist, there is a possibility, even if it there isn't, its never a definite loss.
You know when they say pain will change you, some will no longer believe in love, some will fear of falling in love and some will no longer weigh love the heaviest. 

"One day i will be better for someone like how i was for you." that was how the pain changed me, i still continued to believe in love, i wouldn't have the fear to fall in love and love to me is still a very important feeling. Yes, there's a chance that i will get hurt again,Just like gambling there is always a risk, you may win you may lose. I believe i will pick myself up again like how i usually do. I guess no matter what obstacles i face in life, i will continue to have faith. It may just be a vision for my future when i was young  and although reality can be a bitch sometimes but i believe it can still happen.


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